Bullying


 

Corey and I were laying in bed watch George Lopez, the old show from early 2000’s. A show called “Girl Fight” came on and the premis is that his teenage daughter has lies spread about her saying she is a “whore” and “easy”.  I told Corey “kids and teenagers can be so mean. But it’s really not surprising when you see the way people act on social media.” 

It seems like society is getting crueler. What happened to “if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all.” Is our opinion really so important that we think it’s ok to put others down, criticize and cyber bully? 


Ephesians 4:29

29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.


Proverbs 17:9

9 Whoever would foster love covers over an offense, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends.


Romans 12:18-19

18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.


A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. – Proverbs 15:1


I know it can be hard to not say something when you are attacked. I wanted to give someone my ”professional opinion” about the metaphorical stick that I thought they should see a proctologist about today when they were saying things about my husband. It’s a natural instinct to protect your loved ones. 


38 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’[a] 39 But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also. 40 And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well. 

Matthew 5:38


But we need to live by the example Jesus set! And I don’t mean flipping tables!

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